can u sight how a typical missionary tactic is to extend help to ones less fortunate and then use this as leverage to gain trust amongst a people to then foist a new agenda? by saying this, i am not implying that you are consciously doing this.

i am just trying to get you to overstand that this is an old tactic and when one comes into an assembly of historically conscious ones, it is something that comes into consideration. this may be one reason why you receive some friction from ones.