sistren it is easy for some to talk and give an opinion on things. just be carefull what you take in and who it comes from. some like to talk and do different. or not very forthcoming about themselves. ask the FATHER HE will not tell you wrong. just be prepared to take in what HE says to you no matter what it maybe. dont let the truth hurt you. you may not like what it is (ex.your king having sex with other women) and you dont have to like it.meaning what he is doing. but the truth is a beautiful thing . once knowing it you have to see how you will deal with it. its better than not knowing or being told a lie.