By attrition and by the soviets losing the will to fight and commit money and casualties to a non-vital effort.
Same with the Viet Cong. The body count says the US won but the gains show that the US got its behind kicked.
Sight "The Art Of War" or other strategies. You will notice that psychology is key in defeating enemies moreso than brute fatal strength.
Just like Mike Tyson was never beaten in the ring (per se). He was defeated by his own weaknesses and ego (will help from Don King and Robin Givens of course)
Its a matter of context.
Now, I answered your question. And I will not address anything else from you until you get your juvenile pseudo-gangster attitude together. Its time to grow up and behave like a functional interactive member of society, not to mention this board.
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