One of the greatest deception among us, is that the man thinks that if he is in a relationship with a woman, then he owns that woman, and the woman also thinks that she owns that man, even if they each had other intimate relationships with others before. Also when a man kneel down on his knees with a diamond, or gold ring or whatever kind of ring, and say, will you marry me, most times the man considers that he is buying this woman, and the woman also considers, that as long as shec says yes I will marry you, she has become the property of that man, by reason of the cost of the ring. As far as I am concerned, no man owns a woman, and no woman owns a man. Relationships will come about as a result of being associated with each other, but it is really a big gamble, whether two people will be able to get along together while living together.
Introductions are most of the times deceptive, people generally praise themselves when they meet and introduces themselves to one another. No body is going to tell what are their bad ways in an introduction. But as time goes by, and you have to live together, then everything will gradually be revealed. If two people cannot get along while living together, they shoul;d part, and their should be no violence from the man or the woman. They meet in peace they should part in peace.
Again I send many oceans of blessings and self determination to African peoplec everywhere
ONE BLACK LOVE ONE BLACK HEART
Baba Ras Marcus.