Thanks for that Ayinde, an honest and reasonable post for sure... I will respond later (perhaps not today), under the other sub-topic you asked me about.
Also will post sometime about mental health issues, both as it relates to this subject and in general (Rosalind had asked me to do this before).
That will take more time though as I post at an internet cafe and so can't stay on for long. I would rather compose the post about mental health issues first before blurting it out.
Similarly for the post about not calling police which I said I would post way back... (although the person who asked me to post it won't read it, but whatever)... and about living in Cymru (Wales) which Judah had asked about.
I haven't forgotten (despite my occasional herb usage)! :)