rasdavid, I m not sure I overstand what you meant. Please explain. You say I am on my way up, but maybe next time around. I live my life the way I do even though my king may not be monogamous I can't imagine being with another man. I see the point where all Rasta children will be raised by community, but I still feel that a Rastaman needs to know for sure he is the father. It doesn't mean I don't look at other Rastas it just means I would not fantasize about them or sleep with them. If I did I would expect the man to wear a condom and we all know the Rastamans view on that!