so help me overstand those who feel its against natural order to have one kingsman/queen husband/wife. if you are just dating i can overstand if someone has more than one person.dating is "shoppping" for your k/q h/w. but once you find someone you would call k/q h/w i dont see why you would want or feel the need for someone else . taking someone as your k/q h/w is different than taking them as a boyfriend or girlfriend. its the level above that. if you have a desire or lust for someone else than you werent ready or mature enough for that level of seriousness. a man having alot of woman doesnt make him a man. a man who takes care of her in all ways is. a woman shouldnt have alot of men either. once she has her k/h he should be the only one. same for a man. if either needs more than one then they should just stay dating and not take on the higher level of a relationship as k/q h/w.its like you hold selassiei as the highest of high. he is the only one you choose and hold to yet others are offered.