"the difference we may have may be resulted by experiences .
i think that the less important difference ( white vs black skin ) is portrayed here as the MOST important" .......rob

* if i may interject. this is where you run into difficulty. you say that the color of skin is the less important difference. by doing so you are showing arrogance and insensitivity, and being no less than insulting. is it the least important difference for ones who suffer most at the hands of racism? 'white' people are the ones who designed and created the idea of race and of profiling and subjegating ones on the basis of the color of their skin. so now after all of the wickedness done by the system they created and after all of the wealth they have accumulated, how can a 'white' claim that it is no longer an issue? by saying that 'color doesn't matter' you are in effect saying that the realities, experiences and most importantly the suffering of racism's victims is 'the least important' issue and doesn't matter. you are, in effect, telling non'white' people to "just get over it". i don't think that you realize what yr statements really amount to. i just think that you need to gain a little more humility and overstand that because of yr skin color you have different experiences and have not suffered at the hands of racism and therefore have a perspective that does not represent those of the sufferers. the disease cannot instruct the body how to heal.
please do not take this as a personal attack.

read as:
the disease (white mindset, white perspective, and those who benefit directly/indirectly from racism) cannot instruct the body (the masses of non'white' people who suffer in all aspects of life from racism) how to heal (or when the healing is complete.)

guidance.