You have spoken here like a light-skinned mixed race person with a feeling of privileged entitlements. Hence you have made our case as to why such people should not be trusted to lead. They are just not sensitive to the issues that impact on dark-skinned kinky hair/dreadlocked Blacks. They rarely want to research it, or examine it for what it is.
They feel quite safe calling dark-skinned Blacks vulgar terms just like whites. But it really cannot offend as we are quite used to it from whites and light-skinned ones who demonstrate all the time their obsession with color while they appear to speak differently.