...Totally unrelated to this particular discussion... is jus that I posted something to kaya yesterday which could apply to several people, about assuming we know the gender of people in cyberspace... well, IanI, I jus realize that I don't remember the I ever actually saying what gender you are! I jus say "brudda" cos that is kinda the vibes I got, but I done know ya cyan't tell these things over the internet.
So if you is a sista and not a brudda... my apologies for assuming too much!
Blessed!